posted by
orichalcum at 12:17pm on 02/04/2007 under passover easter
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So, the two major spring religious festivals with which I am best acquainted have both developed auxiliary customs of "treasure-hunting" as a separate game involving both kids and adults. I'm writing this post because I was realizing from various conversations that the nature of these hunts varies dramatically from family to family, and I'm curious to see if I can get any sort of majority opinion on the most common practices.
Easter Egg Hunt: So, in my family, children would wake up early on Easter morning and run out to the living room. The first step was to find the mostly-empty Easter basket (except for the chocolate bunny), which was usually hidden in a fairly obvious place, like under the piano. Then, the actual hunt would begin, for about a dozen dyed hard-boiled eggs (depending on the number of children) and about 60-100 (depending on the number of children) inch-sized foil-wrapped solid chocolate eggs, which the grownups had carefully hidden in and around all the public areas of the house the night before - resting on picture frames, inside vases, and, most memorably, inside the guitar. It's very hard to get eggs _out_ of a guitar, for the record. Once all the eggs, or at least, all the eggs we could find (sometimes we'd find one or two months later) had been located, we could wake up our parents and settle down for a nice Easter breakfast.
Apparently, this is much more elaborate than in many homes. How did those of you who had egg hunts as kids do it?
Afikomen: At most of the Passover Seders I attended when of relevant age, the practice was for the adult conducting the Seder to hide the Afikomen, normally in a relatively obvious location in the same room as the Seder, and then for the children to find it. Whichever child found it turned it in for a reward (most often a book, although sometimes a small toy.) However, I've now been to other Seders where the child hides it and the parent has to find it, or where money is involved. What was your practice?
And, of course, this all begs the larger question of why we have these hunting rituals, which at least in the case of the Afikomen appear to be several centuries if not millennia old. One possibility is simply the practical answer that it gives children an activity to do without disrupting parents during an important religious rite. But this seems simplistic. To me, it evokes metaphors and images of spring and of the coming of new life and hope which is at the center of both Pesach and Easter. (Easter, of course, takes much of its symbolism directly from Pesach, given the nature of the Last Supper.) The good things/life have been buried or lost, and it is up to the child, the visible symbol of growth and new life, to find them and bring them back into the light. To quote the Calvinist motto of my dad's high school: "Post tenebras, lux." After the shadows, light. Winter is over! Let us celebrate the eggs and crocuses and babies of the world! We are free at last from the darkness.
Easter Egg Hunt: So, in my family, children would wake up early on Easter morning and run out to the living room. The first step was to find the mostly-empty Easter basket (except for the chocolate bunny), which was usually hidden in a fairly obvious place, like under the piano. Then, the actual hunt would begin, for about a dozen dyed hard-boiled eggs (depending on the number of children) and about 60-100 (depending on the number of children) inch-sized foil-wrapped solid chocolate eggs, which the grownups had carefully hidden in and around all the public areas of the house the night before - resting on picture frames, inside vases, and, most memorably, inside the guitar. It's very hard to get eggs _out_ of a guitar, for the record. Once all the eggs, or at least, all the eggs we could find (sometimes we'd find one or two months later) had been located, we could wake up our parents and settle down for a nice Easter breakfast.
Apparently, this is much more elaborate than in many homes. How did those of you who had egg hunts as kids do it?
Afikomen: At most of the Passover Seders I attended when of relevant age, the practice was for the adult conducting the Seder to hide the Afikomen, normally in a relatively obvious location in the same room as the Seder, and then for the children to find it. Whichever child found it turned it in for a reward (most often a book, although sometimes a small toy.) However, I've now been to other Seders where the child hides it and the parent has to find it, or where money is involved. What was your practice?
And, of course, this all begs the larger question of why we have these hunting rituals, which at least in the case of the Afikomen appear to be several centuries if not millennia old. One possibility is simply the practical answer that it gives children an activity to do without disrupting parents during an important religious rite. But this seems simplistic. To me, it evokes metaphors and images of spring and of the coming of new life and hope which is at the center of both Pesach and Easter. (Easter, of course, takes much of its symbolism directly from Pesach, given the nature of the Last Supper.) The good things/life have been buried or lost, and it is up to the child, the visible symbol of growth and new life, to find them and bring them back into the light. To quote the Calvinist motto of my dad's high school: "Post tenebras, lux." After the shadows, light. Winter is over! Let us celebrate the eggs and crocuses and babies of the world! We are free at last from the darkness.
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...or a guitar pick, or most anything else. I've spent more time than I'd like with a guitar upside-down over my head, shaking at various angles!
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For the record, three-year-old sized fingers, should one have an appropriate cousin or friend's kid around, are perfectly suited for this task.
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For seder the adults would hide the afikomen and the kids would hunt for it. Whoever found it would get maybe two dollars and everyone else would get one dollar. Since none of the 'kids', at this point ranging from 20 to 27, have had kids I actually still get to hunt for the afikomen when I got to seders. :)
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I don't completely understand how egg hunts work, unless the parents get up early to hide them - don't hard boiled eggs go bad over the course of the twelve hours they're hidden, if the parents do it the night before? I asked Richard this, and he said his family never hid hard-boiled eggs, for that reason, and besides, ew, what kid wants hard-boiled eggs? His family's hidden eggs were all chocolate.
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--Adam
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But I suspect the eggs were hidden around 10 or 11PM and found by 7:30 AM, so not that long in any case.
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My parents would hide baskets full of candy, toys, etc., throughout the house and what I would hunt for on Easter morning before church. The baskets and toys (usually rabbit-themed) were the same every year, but I never really played with them except around Easter week.
After church (during which there was an Easter egg hunt immediately following the service), my parents and grandparents would have an Easter meal, at the end of which my Dad would hide the hard-boiled eggs I painted the day before outside in the yard. Being young and stupid, I would run around, find the eggs, bring them back to him, at which point he would simply hide them again while I was continuing the search until I started recognizing that I already found that particular egg.
Lots of hunting I suppose, but I'm not sure if there's a deep anthropological reason behind it. I just found it fun.
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-KS
(*) Except in one memorable year during which my grandfather, who was leading the service, tried to ransom back the afikomen for an insulting small sum. In this case, the leader searches the house 3 or 4 times over the span of two hours while all the other adults sit around complaining about wanting to go home. But some nights truly are unlike all other nights...
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(Although, given the gender ratios in your family, it probably makes sense to have a slightly larger percentage of things be "men's work.")
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It's all quite needlessly complicated...
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(*) There are also aesthetic issues such as making sure that Sabra’s traditional “one carrot and two knadles” order doesn’t come out looking obscene.
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I've noticed this year that the requests for eggs are not for hardboiled ones, but for plastic ones with "age appropriate goodies" inside. I'm not sure if that's code for "NO CANDY", so I've gotten some little bunny-shaped erasers instead.
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I never really thought of the deeper meaning behind all of the hunting connected with Passover and Easter, but I like your interpretation :)
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Anyway. I wonder if the easter egg hunt isn't perhaps just an elaboration of the actual need to go hunting for eggs (with the obvious attendant symbolism of eggs, of course)? If you have chickens that you don't keep in a coop, egg hunts are a fact of life...
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Also, my mom always hid dyed hard-boiled eggs the night before Easter and we'd look; after we found them all we'd get our candy basket and eat breakfast.
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Then, massive egg salad.
The egg dying was much more fun than the egg hunts, though, particularly when some friends of ours started the trend of making pysanky instead, which is *fabulous*. I still have a kiska and wax lying around somewhere. We stopped doing it as much, though, when the place where we got black dye closed and the new black dye was cheap and discolored too easily. http://www6.shizuokanet.ne.jp/kishimh/EGGworld/egworlde.htm